Like they give up at the first disagreement?
Do you feel that some people don't know how to have a relationship?
What Guys Said 7
oh yeah. that's because of over expectations and living in the clouds or think they are living in a movie.1
i think those who have unrealistic ideas on how a good relationship should be are looking for perfection and end up ending things they shouldn't and hurt htemselves by getting old and not ahving the same options.1
I am the king of keeping relationships and know how to communicate, share responsibilities etc I don't know how to attract women tho... so in that sense, I'm clueless.0
of course, some people are clueless0
School relationships in a nutshell yea. Haha.0
Yes, but I'm talking about friendships as well. Not only relationships. When I'm trying to make a female friend I have to walk on eggshells otherwise I'm fucked.0
Yes... even after years... they seem uncapable.1
What Girls Said 3
Because people think so highly of themselves today, they want nothing else but instant gratification - so if your partner did the tiniest thing you didn't approve of, you lose your head like a mad man since shit is not "perfect".
So sure, people do give up easily and move on to the next person.
However, one needs to be diligent as this same thinking leads to dysfunctional relationships where both parties are simply immature and incapable of solving their differences in a reasonable manner.
Instead, they fight bitterly, call each other horrible things, ignore each other for days or even weeks, then cool down, talk it over and say sorry. Then repeat the same shit 2 days later. THEN after months of this idiocy they turn up with their noses high claiming they're so noble because they "had their ups and downs", but they "fought for their relationship".
No, you dipshits. You didn't "fight" for your relationship. You're not in a war torn country struggling to stay alive, were separated by the enemy, made sacrifices for one another just to be together.
You fought WITH each other over stupid bullshit because both of you are whiny piss babies that always had to have the last word and get their way.
Too many idiots today think if they constantly fight but stick around, that they're somehow heroes.
I guess it's so, but it's most likely cause they don't have a lot of experience.1
Yes, I agree with your question.1
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