New guy says he'll come and get me so we can go out. The place we are going is a surprise. Before anyone questions the surprise, I feel like I have good judgment and I will be letting my mother know my where abouts also. I would like to point out that I will not be getting in a car with him. I would like advice on how to reject the offer without coming across rude? I'd happily take a bus and meet him there. My safety comes first!
Most Helpful Guy
There's no reason why he should find it rude. If he does, there's something wrong with me. It is not safe to get in a car with a stranger.
I always tell this story when I hear these type of questions. My mom almost got kidnapped or something bad. Met up with a dude to go out eat. He started driving to a really secluded, she said there were barely any lights and no cars on the street (we live in vegas for christs sake!). It freaked her the hell out and she demanded that they go back. This guy completely ignored her request and KEPT DRIVING FASTER! She completely freaked and opened the door, threatening to jump out. He chickened out and drove back.
True story. That's freaky man. That was a guy that an acquaintance of my mom introduced too.1
Most Helpful Girl
Don't do anything rash. Make sure you have someone to contact if anything goes wrong & definitely ride the bus (getting in his car is just asking for trouble). Just tell him that you already have plans for a ride & that you don't wanna put him out. Safety first for sure!!! :) Good luck and I hope you have a good time0