Whilst looking for a girlfriend which is more important? I have this problem I am not unattractive yet all I get is losers interested in me. I admit I am not very smart but I have good traits. I am at the point where I have taken on the attitude if no descent guy is interested in me because of the fact of me not being smart as well as being attractive, it is their problem not mine!
I am always perceived as being as an airhead. I know more than I let onto. So why are pretty girls treated like an object? I never fall for that bullshit being used for sex. I had guys who wanted to cheat on their gfs with me. I did once not knowing and I found out afterwards 😡.
I am tired of being asked if I have a boyfriend. And saying no everytime. I am beginning to think something is wrong with me for always being single. I would not consider those hookups or losers being interested in me as anything to mention. I know I am extremely picky when it comes to dating.
I just want to know why it is never anyone descent is interested in me. I am trying to better myself I have my high school diploma. I just completed a college program. 2 years prior I completed another college program which was longer than my current one. I am not a loser or a drug addict. I don't get it.
Yes intelligence and personality are linked together so I did not feel the need to add it.
In my opinion I believe the older you get you know intelligence and personality are by far the most important aspects of a person. When you're younger or in your midlife crisis I guess most guys would say looks are important. However I believe intelligence and personality are so much more important than anything. Also everyone goes through the streak of attracting losers and I will admit I was with a woman who told me she was divided only to find out after I was with her that she was still married. It sucked and I felt so incredibly embarressed by it.
Since I have been at this site for umm almost a year and a half , the lions share of guys are after the looker girl while intelligence would be second. I am in the latter section that you didn't mention , personality. If a girl downs possess a good genuine descent personality I have no interest even if she has both other options covered
Intelligence. The excitement associated with being with a pretty girl fades very quickly (especially after/if you have sex). The excitement associated with being with an intelligent girl is reoccurring and never-ending.
Still, the fact that you know you're an airhead reveals a level of self-awareness, and therefore intelligence, that I think speaks more fondly of you than you would otherwise believe.