so, I met this guy and we were emailing, texting, and we talked on the phone a couple of times before we decided to go on a date. we went to a movie then dinner and then decided to go for coffee because we were both having a good time and wanted to continue getting to know each other.
the next day, I texted him thanking him for the night before and he texted me back saying that he had a great time and ended up texting throughout the day/night.
also that night we ended up having a friendly bet on a football game. if my team won he would buy me dinner and if my team lot I would buy him dinner...my team ended up winning...we never really made any specific plans but basically we planned on having dinner again.
prior to this, we had been texting pretty much everyday or at least every other day. now, I haven't heard from him since the game (which was almost 2 weeks ago). I did text him (just hey, what's up) a few days after the game and never got a response.
I know that he is really busy...but how long does it take to txt someone? which leads me to this: should I just get over him? is he just not into me?
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Just give him some space, if the relationship is important to him, or he sees a future in it, he'll get back to you about it. The harsh reality of it is that it might not be the case. Don't sit around and wait for him to come back, be open-minded about what's going on if he does decide to text/email/call you back. Just keep on living your life and go from there.1