I feel people just say that to not come off as stuck up. Can you really give anyone a chance to date you?
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It's obviously both. People are just different, so some lean more on one side than the other. Some people lean heavily on personality, some people lean more on the exterior, some people like both-- my point is, it varies form person to person.
A good looking person is a good looking person, but without the personality, they're trash. No one wants to hang around trash, unless they're trash themselves. That's what I think. Personally, I wouldn't even talk to someone with a stupid and crappy personality no matter how good looking they were, even if I tried, I couldn't do it. I can't tolerate people with shitty personalities.
That being said, yes, personality does matter the most. Actual compatibility in the chemistry between two people isn't measured by how great someone's face looks, after all.0