I want to win my guy back. We've been through a lot, and he's hurt and scared, but I know that he still has feelings for me. I want to fight for him and tell him that I'll be there and wait till he's ready. I'm a hopeless romantic, and want to put it all on the line for him. But my friend says I'm too available and will overwhelm him and I should pull back and wait... and that he hasn't done anything to deserve such devotion and that I should wait until he does. But I think that he needs to know how much I care in order to feel some sense of stability and feel secure in trying again. Is there harm in fighting for him?
What's more effective…. fighting or pulling back?
What Guys Said 5
No I don't agree with your friend. It would be a good guest ur to just let him know exactly what you just stated here0
You don't have to smother him or even talk to let him know you still care for him. Any act of appreciation will let him know. Make him a meal and bring him some, or order a pre paid pizza without him knowing about it.
... doesn't have to be food, it's just where my mind went0
for my opinion should wait until he does0
Always fight for what you want.0
What Girls Said 1
Fight if you love him.