I am 17 years old and never been in a relationship. A close friend of mine everytime talks with guys, she gets all the attention from boys, she's great at flirting and I always hear there's a boy who likes her or compliments her. I am not jealous or something, but I just wonder why guys don't ask me out more often, it's like I'm invisible. It's not a problem with the way I look, I always try to look my best and I have a good sense of style, so I don't have major confidence problems. Some say I look unapproachable. Sometimes I think maybe I'm just not attractive to guys as they have different views on attractiveness than girls. I don't know... Can you give me some advices on what's wrong and what should I do?
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I am in the same situation. And I smile and try to seem approachable, I am not that bad looking either. but my problem is that I am too young for the people I socialize with. I am in college with 16, what college guy would want to date me? I got used just to be the friend of my friend. And well I guess you my dear have to smile more, and start to stop being in the shadows. Make more friends you have things in common with, like hobbies or taste in music or movies, and from these things they'd be more interested in get to know you better.0