Hello guys. Gag and real life villain here.
I know that this will he a delicious bit of news especially to those who hate me but eh, I wear my heart on my sleeve and yes, I have a heart.
So there is this guy that I have liked for ages and I conjured up the courage to ask him out to the movies. Now last week I admitted to him that I thought he was hot and I placed some sexual innuendos (he said his head was hurting and I said that he should come over and I would massage his head... He actually didn't get it). Anyway after I said that, he asked me if I was drunk and I said a little (I was extremely sober and thinking clearly). Then he said I was hot too.
So then I invited him to a group outing for the premier of hunger games 4 and he said he would come and then yesterday he messaged me saying he can't come anymore coz he had a bucks night. I thought he was weird with me because I told him he was hot and he wanted to avoid me.
I told him that it was fine and that I invited everyone I knew. Then I said that I don't mean anything i said and that I was tipsy and that I liked him as a friend but for him to have fun. He replied that he never thought of that and that yeah he will have fun.
Then things got out of hand and in the end I told him to get fucked and blocked him.
Yes, egos got in the way but I admit that I am a bit of an angry person because all my life, I have always been the last resort and rejected. Yes, laugh and gloat. Its Ok.
What I want to know is that I want to apologize to him. Should I or did I do enough damage?
I feel like shit.
- ApologizeVote A
- Nah.. too late.Vote B
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I am glad you apologised and you sorted it out with your friend - It sounded like one of those misunderstandings that escalate out of control and the participants are not sure how it happened - Okay what I would do is get things on an even keel again as friends then reassess how you feel about him, from what you said it seems like you do both like each other - If you still like him broach the subject as before but in a more straightforward manner, show and say that you do REALLY like him, no pretending to be drunk or anything that may confuse things - If he reciprocates great, if not then just say "Cool we can still be friends I understand how you feel" - Sometimes in life we have to step outside our comfort zone and the bigger the risk, the bigger the reward - Which is more important realistically the potential for a bruised ego or the potential for something special. To paraphrase a sport cliché, a bruised ego is temporary but something special could be far more substantial.1