My girlfriend in particular has guy friends she thinks its okay to hang out with a bunch of guys when she's my girlfriend when someone ha a girlfriend or boyfriend opposite sex friendships should be kept casual not going out with them andhanging around them.
Peoguy dont talk to girls to be friends if a guy is talking to my girlfriend chances are he's probably thinking off ucking her so whats the deal? Its not that hard to figure out. Or should I dum my girl? I dont trust any girl enough to have her have guys around her house often
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Wow. I have male friends, some married, some in committed relationships, some single. I would expect to hang out with them on occasion; to me, that is casual. I'm not dating them or getting intimate with them; I trust that have good sense and self-control not to try anything.
Sometimes, I will meet with one of them on a one-on-one basis, but it's usually in a professional capacity or to ask their opinion on something from a guy's perspective (usually, it's to evaluate my S. O.'s behavior). It's not to sleep with any of them. Even if they did have the idea that they wanted to get with me, I would think they would have the common sense and decency not to act on it. It can be done. Not everyone has the hots for anything walking.
It just sounds like you were looking for any reason to dump her, and you used the guy friends as an excuse to do so. Based on the logic you provided in your comments and responses, the same would seemingly apply to her having any kind of interpersonal interaction with male co-workers. Is she not allowed to have a job because guys work there and might try to bang her?
Perhaps your beliefs would go fittingly in a culture that oppresses women and stones them for similar "offenses." For now, though, I would definitely try to work on that insecurity (let's call it what it is) before getting into another relationship, because that kind of toxic thinking will continue to yield the same result, regardless of who you're with.0
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Most Helpful Guy
See I couldn't be cool with this causeis the likely the girl would be getting a train ran on her1