Basically, i have been with my boyfriend for just over 10 weeks. We haven't said we love each other and i am not even sure if i do love him (dont get me wrong though, i really do like and fancy him) Anyway, i think we are going to have sex in the next couple of days and i would kind of like it if we both said we loved eachother. I know it's silly but would it be wrong to ask him to say it with the caviat that he doesn't necessarily have to mean it? (We are both 18 and in our last year of high school)
Most Helpful Guy
That's retarded. You shouldn't tell someone you love them for the first time during sex even if you mean it, cuz they are gonna doubt your feelings and think its just lust. Its perfectly fine to say i love you during sex if you've already said it outside of sex (hell, i did it all the time in my past relationships). But i think you should refrain from it until you have both said it AND meant it--outside of the bedroom.0
Most Helpful Girl
If the word love is tossed or played around with , it will quickly lose its meaning when the person does really feel that way.
Don't take away the meaning of such a powerful word.
There's tons of things you can ask him to say during sex.
"Tell me you love this pussy!" as you are riding him.
Is just one of the many examples.0