He said i was someone with no ''goals or ambitions in life'. I was going through a hard time because of an family sitituation that was causing me stress. He never tried to understand or help me and then made it seem like i betrayed him. He has moved on now with a very ugly girlfriend (no joke), her personality might be the best tho... but i feel betrayed on why he just gave up on me... it made me realize that people run away and aren't trustworthy when times are tough... he was suprised i said that he literally doesn't have to come back when im doing in well in life, he said i was just trying to be ''tough'' and showing off and that i was pathetic for saying that. He called me ''unstable''.
No one is perfect we all have our faults. You shouldn't leave someone for depression it's in controllable in some case, medical may help is some, other a strong support network "friends, family, boy/girlfriend". Some people can't handle real life so they go for easier things "when they find out you have medical issues, there partner gets pregnant or money's tight".
You are young 18-24 family stress, work, school, hormones "your body is still growing", trying to decide what you want to do in life it's all natural, Don't worry about him. You will find someone else work on and focus on work/school and your personal well being, improve yourself. It wasn't you it was him.
As a fellow sufferer of depression, I understand this fully. I was in a similar situation. I was with a guy who made me feel guilty for my lack of enthusiasm. We broke up, and now I'm with a man who goes above and beyond to make me happy, and when he can't due to the illness, he just is there for me. Your man will come, I know it's hard but be patient. You will find your love who makes you feel that it's okay to have tough days and makes you feel that you are walking on sunshine on others. I wish you the best :)
He left you because you're probably depressed for nothing like 99% depressed chicks out there who are constantly whining about how hard life is for them. Even if you really are it is almost impossible for him to do anything and who would want to stay with a whiny brat forever? He moved on to something better.
Douchebag who wasn't the right guy... I have friends who left me after they learned I was suicidal... And then there were the few unexpected friends who showed up and built my life back up. Honestly prolly it was fate's way of telling you there is someone else out there
He's being a jerk. Many people won't stay through hard times. That takes a lot of caring. It's not your fault that he left, and I think you're right to keep him gone from your life. You deserve to have people who are positive about you and support you.
If you suffer from depression, you need to take responsibility and seek professional help. You can't be angry with him if he's ill equipped to deal with your issues. If you don't want this to continue happening, seek help and if suggested, medication.