We have known each other for a year , almost two. I will be 18 in a month and I'm one month pregnant.
Should I marry him when I turn 18 so he can help with the baby? I also live in a small apartment by myself working 2 jobs.. I don't know if I'm making the right choice or not.
Most Helpful Guy
You don't need to be married for him to help with the baby. You shouldn't get married if you don't love him, because it won't last and a divorce is just one more complication that you don't need. . . but if you love him, getting married would be nice,2
Most Helpful Girl
If he suggested that y'all get married say yes. He is your baby's father and deserves to be present in your baby's life. Now the thing is i you do marry him and then later get a divorce it would be better for you to not have married him in the first place. If he tries to do what's right by you then he will do the same with the baby. Talk to friends, family, and older people that know both of you and that you trust a lot. i hope this works out well for you and that he turns out to be a good father. Just remember the most important thing at first is to take care of the baby. Please, please, please do not have an abortion!!2