On a scale 1-10.. How bad would it be if I take the initiative to try and ask a guy out.. I always prefer if a guy makes the first move but he's a little shy or so I think but I don't know why I feel like their might be a connection...
tbh I prefer the girl to ask me out. Girls get asked out all the time. All girls are wanted to some degree. Women are selective of men however. Anyways, if you like him and want him then you have to appeal to him or let him know. Just like if a guy likes a girl, he needs to approach her or she will never know.
I have been asked out by women before it is flattering I didn't know they were interested at me because I met them at their jobs. I just assumed they were being nice to me because I was a customer when they asked me out I said yes. On a scale of 1-10 of how bad it would be I would say 0 you're a woman and you're free to make your own decisions.
I have actually done this and it didn't turn out so great at first. I asked a guy to prom and he said no because he was going to ask someone else. When I got to prom, he complimented me and things went smoothly after that.