OK. I was asked out by this guy on Okcupid. We went out a few times but something just didn't click with me at first so I took some time to figure myself out.
I really didn't tell him why I was being distant (I made some bulshit excuse up about work) and he took that as me losing interest and he started talking to other girls and now is in a relationship.
For a while now I've been hoping these feelings would go away so I could move on, but they haven't and I'm stuck in this mess.
Why do I keep doing this?
I really don't know what to do. Please help me.
- Tell him the truth and see how he reacts12% (1)40% (6)30% (7)Vote
- Just block it out50% (4)27% (4)35% (8)Vote
- Move to Siberia lol25% (2)27% (4)26% (6)Vote
- Wait and see what happens13% (1)6% (1)9% (2)Vote
Most Helpful Guy
You need to do more self reflection. You know you fucked up and now want him back. When he was available you know you could take your sweet time and string him along. But now that he's gone you realize you didn't have nearly as much time as you thought. He moved on. He made a decision and decided you weren't worth waiting for. Perhaps thats why you're so hung up on him. He's got more value to you now than he did before.
Like I said, you need to do more self reflection. Figure out what wasn't clicking for you and why. Learn from this so it doesn't happen again.1