Hello everyone. I recently found out that my mom has been trying to hook up and have sex with a guy via her phone for nearly 11 months. I've read the messages (she was even inviting that man home while nobody was at home) and I feel betrayed and gutted by the person I trusted the most. She sent him pics of her. My mind is completely blank. I have a brother and a sister. I'm the only one who knows about this in the family. I do not know what to do and I would highly appreciate it if you could give me a bit of your time and advise me please. Thank you in advance.
Hi, I'm sorry that you're upset, but why do you feel betrayed? Is your mom still with your dad? If not then she's just seeking companionship and that's a normal thing to do. I need to know exactly in what way you think she's betraying you.
Do you expect your mother to stay single for the rest of her life? Do you even understand how lonely she probably is? Stop going through her phone and stop trying to run her life. You are her son. Not her daddy. You want your mom to be happy, right?
Unless she's still with your dad and trying to cheat, it's really none of your business. She's not trying to involve him in her family life and introduce him to her kids, she just wants what a lot of women want... Leave her be.