We split in May. He refused to even talk to me and to this day he still has no time for me. Talking to him is like drawing blood from a stone to be honest.
So yeah; he quite clearly hates me, right?
Yet the latest girl he seems to be him to has big dark eyes, dark hair and pale skin like me. Same height. Petite and slim. She also has a 6 year old kid with the same name that my ex and I wanted to call our first kid. She also happens to have the exact same job as me.
The only difference is that she's a few years older with tattoos and piercings. She also seems to be kinda similar in nature to me as well? But with a little more attitude about her. Only real difference is that I'd say she has a prettier face than me.
I just wonder though, why on earth would my ex go for someone similar to me... when he evidently hates me so much?
- She's hot so he wants her9% (1)33% (2)18% (3)Vote
- She might remind him of you a little, even if it's subconscious45% (5)67% (4)53% (9)Vote
- He's possibly rebounding0% (0)0% (0)0% (0)Vote
- He's completely and utterly moved on9% (1)0% (0)6% (1)Vote
- Hard to say37% (4)0% (0)23% (4)Vote
Most Helpful Guy
It is probably the type he likes and therefore she has similar features.2
Most Helpful Girl
Love is close to hate. Whatever happened between you both which lead to him cutting you out of his life doesn't mean he doesn't have some feelings for you however much they are. It's more than likely this new woman does remind him of you but the fact that she isn't you is also appealing to him eg whatever reason you fell out for.
I had something similar happen and I convinced myself otherwise over and over again because he literally hated me that much. Then in time I saw he'd literally turn up places I'd frequent and keep up to date with stuff I liked eg music restaurants sporting events etc and I realised he was still in love with me but that despite that fact sometimes you're both just better off being apart and with other people than in an unhealthy relationship.0
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