I met this guy in a party, and we went on 4 dates (mostly chilling at his place) since then. (mostly once a week since we go to different schools) We talked a lot about our views toward relationships, and I know that he just broke up with his girlfriend like about 3 months ago, so isn't down for a serious one. I was a bit concerned with just being a "fucking buddy" to him, so we sorta had a talk and I made it clear that I wouldn't want to have sex with him til I could trust him more, and he was ok with that, and still wanna hangout with me.
But I just don't really understand what he meant by saying he's still "figuring things out". Does he like me or is he just playing the field? (Though he said he likes me and felt that I'm interesting, I'm not sure what kinda like he really meant) Also, tho he has been pretty respectful, he's often suggestive. Is it a normal thing to talk about sexual stuff with a girl, or does it means that this is a red flag of him actually being really sexual?
Last but not least, is it possible for us to have a long relationship, and what might be the things he is looking for?
I don't know if I should continue going out with this guy, cuz I don't wanna be hurt badly if it turns out that he didn't like me at all, but just wanna flirt and hook up with girls.
Most Helpful Guy
Reliable access to sex. That's it.
Low-value guys may want something more permanent. But they are low-power, so why would anyone want them?0
Most Helpful Girl
college guys are unsure of what they want most of them! We are too young to know what we like and dislike just yet... we haven't tired the whole world!0