Is it weird/wrong for a 18-21 year old person to date a 14-16 year old person?


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Most Helpful Girl

  • If it's 18 with a 16 yr old. Eh. Not wrong. Normal.

    The rest are just wrong.
    18 with a 14, creepy.
    14 with a 21, that 21 is a pedo.
    16 and 21, he's not a pedo. But still wrong.

    The rule of thumb is "if you've been out of high school longer than he/she's been in it, he/she's too young for you."

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    • What about 19 with 16?

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    • Tell him he deserved it and more. These people are gonna hate me lol

    • Thanks for MHgrl :)

Most Helpful Guy

  • Apart from being statutory rape, unless you happen to live in a country with a low age of consent, it's just wrong because of the difference in maturity between the two.

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    • 14 to 16 years olds are still developing mentally and emotionally, so you'd be taking advantage of them as a grown adult.

What Girls Said 9

  • I'm 15 and if anyone above the age of 17 hit on me I'd be scared and freaked out! No! No! No!

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  • Let me rephrase that for you:

    "Is it weird/wrong for a 18-21 year old person to date a child?"

    ... yes.

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  • Any 21 yr old trying to date a 14-16 yr old is just manipulative of the naivety and insecurities 14-16 yr old girls. 16 and 18 is fine, I talked to someone a couple years older than me when I was 16.

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  • I think so. They're underage. Leave them alone.

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  • Absolutely wrong. The intellectual and emotional levels are totally different. If all you can handle is a 14-year-old your bad shape

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  • Not for me. I'd date someone who's in their 30's if I find them attractive.

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  • If its 18 and 14 yes
    16 and 18 no
    21 and 16 yes
    14 and 21 yes

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  • It's weird if you're 18+ and he/she is like 14 or 15. But if you're 18 and the other person is 16 or more it's fine

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  • It depends. In my book, it's fine for a 18 year old to date a 16 year old, but NOT appropriate if they are interested in dating a 14 year old. As for a 19 year old dating a 16 year old, still weird but acceptable.

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What Guys Said 8

  • Yes I think so lol

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  • Not in America.

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  • dating is ok when it gets physical it depends on the age of consent.. or if the two of you fuck and keep it a secret

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  • Yes, it is.

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  • It's illegal and all.

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  • A two year difference no but more than that yes.

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  • Better yet. 14 & 21

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  • Yes it is weird and wrong.

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    • What about 19 year old guy with a 16 year old?

    • still weird but not legally wrong.

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