Is it weird/wrong for a 18-21 year old person to date a 14-16 year old person?
Updates: Most Helpful Girl
If it's 18 with a 16 yr old. Eh. Not wrong. Normal.
The rest are just wrong. 18 with a 14, creepy. 14 with a 21, that 21 is a pedo. 16 and 21, he's not a pedo. But still wrong. The rule of thumb is "if you've been out of high school longer than he/she's been in it, he/she's too young for you."
Most Helpful Guy
Apart from being statutory rape, unless you happen to live in a country with a low age of consent, it's just wrong because of the difference in maturity between the two.
What Girls Said 9
I'm 15 and if anyone above the age of 17 hit on me I'd be scared and freaked out! No! No! No!
Let me rephrase that for you:
"Is it weird/wrong for a 18-21 year old person to date a child?" ... yes.
Any 21 yr old trying to date a 14-16 yr old is just manipulative of the naivety and insecurities 14-16 yr old girls. 16 and 18 is fine, I talked to someone a couple years older than me when I was 16.
I think so. They're underage. Leave them alone.
Absolutely wrong. The intellectual and emotional levels are totally different. If all you can handle is a 14-year-old your bad shape
Not for me. I'd date someone who's in their 30's if I find them attractive.
If its 18 and 14 yes
16 and 18 no 21 and 16 yes 14 and 21 yes
It's weird if you're 18+ and he/she is like 14 or 15. But if you're 18 and the other person is 16 or more it's fine
It depends. In my book, it's fine for a 18 year old to date a 16 year old, but NOT appropriate if they are interested in dating a 14 year old. As for a 19 year old dating a 16 year old, still weird but acceptable.
What Guys Said 8
dating is ok when it gets physical it depends on the age of consent.. or if the two of you fuck and keep it a secret
A two year difference no but more than that yes.
Yes it is weird and wrong.
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