I had strong feelings for the girl and I'm NEVER the jealous type.. always laid back and chill. I guess I'm asking if my accusations that she might of been messing around after that might be of been rational.. maybe I wasn't being a little insecure girl. Looking back.. I think most guys would of been really sketchy too.
You called her a massive slut? Slut shaming at its best. Whatever. It's your opinion.
Now my opinion is that, yes that's a lot of men. Then again, why has she slept with so many. Have you asked. Someone mentioned a sexual addiction to fill in a void in her life. Perhaps sexual abuse. You don't know this. No one does. I never judge a person by their sexual past because I haven't walked in their shoes. What I care about is 1) STD test no matter if you claim to be a virgin 2) correct condom use.
I've had a friend who was a virgin when she married and two years later began going to bars and sleeping around. Then I've had am friends who were promiscuous while single but were faithful once they were in a solid LTR.
if you like her what does it matter? I Have sleeted with over 30 women, and I told my ex (because she asked) she freaked out and made me get tested! I think it's just a number, and what they do with their body prior to meeting you is none of your business. What if they judged you based on things you have done in the past would still like them? What if you did some drug or had sex with a man, and she thought this was disgusting and judged you for it? Like seriously who cares. She's polishing your penis not some other guys. That just means she has experience as far as I am concerned...
Wtf man that's ridiculous. Anything more than 10 is just sick. Stay away from her God knows what std she has
Ewww sorry but how old was she when she lost her virginity? 13? Maybe she was going through something. I mean a lot of guys lose their virginity EARLY! So if you have known her for along time ask her if there was a reason behind sleeping with all of those guys. Maybe insecurities that were ok only when she had sex. I don't know maybe she just loves sex. If that's the case then I wouldn't trust her. But maybe ask her first see what she has to say. See but it's ok when guys have slept with dozens of girls before settling down and girls are supposed to be ok with that? She should have told you but I think you should really think this one through.
I wouldn't trust them, but not because of the number of their sexual partners. I wouldn't trust them because I can't actually trust my own shadow.
Actually trust isn't the thing that turns me off the most. She could be promiscuous and loyal. The image of 30 different guys having sex with her is what turns me off the most. To have her in my bed and to have it running through my mind "30 different guys who were likely stranger got to have this with her with no effort".
Those throughs that would play through my mind would turn me off more than the risk of cheating.