I've been dating a girl for 2 weeks and honestly, I feel nothing for her. I feel really shitty because my ex and I broke up like a month ago and I'm not over her so I shouldn't be dating anyone else but I feel really lonely and have no one because all my friends are mad at me.
So I actually see this girl as a friend but she likes me in a different way. The problem is that if I tell her I wanna be just friends, she'll probably say no and stop talking to me or something so I'm dating her but I don't really want to? I just wanna have someone.
The thing is, I'm willing to see what happens and maybe I'll end up developing feelings for her in the future? she's pretty and we get along really well.
Am I doing something shitty? In a way I feel like I'm using her but I do like her as a person so I don't know if I am or not.
- Tell her it's over. You're doing something wrong.79% (19)57% (4)74% (23)Vote
- Keep dating her!12% (3)14% (1)13% (4)Vote
- Other (explain)9% (2)29% (2)13% (4)Vote
Most Helpful Guy
Don't date someone you don't like.. That's just a recipe for disaster. I know how people feel wicked vulnerable around the time of a breakup but that can't be solved by immediately jumping into another relationship. That would just be a recipe for disaster.. You have to care about yourself for a while and build up your self esteem again. The time this can take can vary depending on the circumstances but it is very much possible. You're completely worth it and I believe in you :)1
Most Helpful Girl
And this is why you really shouldn't rebound. She's pretty much someone you latched onto for no reason but to have companionship. Don't hurt her by not liking her but keeping her.1