How many of you women pay for the first date?
And you are?
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I would cause I hate feeling like I'm spending someone else's money.
Most Helpful Guy
Well usually the guy does the asking and the one that asks should be the one that pays. I usually pick something like ice skating or bowling though for a first date and so I'm not really spending all that much money.
After a first date I think it should be whoever feels like spoiling the other person should pay. It's about WANTING to pay for your partner not being obliged to. I don't like the 50/50 thing nor do I like the take turns thing because that just feels too systematic and not romantic at all.
What Girls Said 14
We'd both pay for ourselves
I don't pay for the first but I like to be fair so I like taking turns paying. so I pay for second him for third me for fourth etc
I'd split it half and half or I pay for my own and he pays for his.. Easier that way. :D
for me it depends. if im a college student living off of. ramen and i date a 28 year old withba secure income and is saving money for a house i dont pay.
but if i ask out a guy who is also a college student i pay. because i asked him out. if he asked me out ill either split or buy the coffee after
neither. I pay for myself
If I ask, I pay. If he asks, I offer to pay for all or just my half. I don't like being bought everything but don't like buying everything either. I think it should be 50/50 or take turns paying. :)
If I asked him the I would offer to pay, but I think splitting it is far easier for everyone.
I'd pay for my own food, thanks.
when i was dating, most of my dates would insist on paying even when i offered to pay my share
I've never actually been on a date but if I did I would want to split the bill.
I usually split, but I did pay every time during my last relationship. Goes with the territory of dating younger sometimes.
What Guys Said 5
Each pay what they order themselfs. This to avoid problems..
I never will! Viva la my wallet.
Is it not normal anymore to pay for the food you buy yourself?
No matter what date or outing with a girl I will be the one paying the bill or check
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