Most Helpful Girl
I would cause I hate feeling like I'm spending someone else's money.4
Most Helpful Guy
Well usually the guy does the asking and the one that asks should be the one that pays. I usually pick something like ice skating or bowling though for a first date and so I'm not really spending all that much money.
After a first date I think it should be whoever feels like spoiling the other person should pay. It's about WANTING to pay for your partner not being obliged to. I don't like the 50/50 thing nor do I like the take turns thing because that just feels too systematic and not romantic at all.0