I feel like im surrounded by the worst guys. like they all have some horrible baggage, most are potheads (and i used to smoke but i dont anymore, so i can't stand being around people who do), some are flakey, some are boring, some play too much, some are just extremely irritating, and some are just trying to get laid. i mean whenever i do date someone, i make sure its a decent respectful guy i dont just settle for whoever and i dont put up with any bs, but i haven't dated in a whileeee because its just so rare to find a guy thats good enough. and my standards are really not even that high, just has to be attractive to me, nice, caring, and interesting. where are all the good guys?
So, there are a lot of good guys out there but I feel that are a lot of girls are blind when they are looking for the right guy. Guys are the same way, they keep hurting themselves but the right person could be right next to them the whole time. You could also just be in an area where no guys interest you but that seems kind of hard to believe especially if your in college. If your not, then maybe a change of area would help. Honestly, just keep looking because you will definitely find a guy who can meet all of your needs.
I am sorry to hear this because I have been looking for girls like you for some time now. Your not picky, your just asking for a decent person on the inside which in my opinion is not much to ask for. You have pretty much everything tagged and trust me I do understand the frustration of all the potheads that won't grow up. There are decent guys out there, there are not a lot but they do exist. Do you approach guys at all? Sometimes their are quiet guys who are not sure if its ok to talk to you. I know you may roll your eyes at this suggestion but have you tried hobbies and other classes like cooking? If your still in school I would recommend talking to some of the guys in your evening classes.
"where are all the good guys?" In the mythical friend zone (if you believe in it) where ya left them I'm guessing or sitting at home playing videos game to take their mind off the fact that no girl never seems to give them the time of day.
To be honest there out there but you have to be willing to look. And coming from a guy that are all those things you mentioned on the bottom it's just as hard to find a girl in the same since that your looking for a good guy. But unfortunately I'm already taken lol
Well in this day and age good luck guys have turned into video game playing potheads but then again so have women and as you stated you finally got your head out of the cloud but seems like what you need is to start hanging out with different people your looking for something new in your old surroundings
See how easy it is to say stupid shit? Just shut it.
Oh, and your problem is that you hang out with trash. Choose better friends, go to places where successful people are (easier to do if you *actually* try to be successful yourself). Keep hanging with losers, you'll be destined to date one (and be one yourself).