Hello, I've asked out a girl and she told me that she has a boyfriend. Bad news for me is that for the first time I ask out a girl, at the age of 22. Thus, it's not easy to move on.
I've asked her out like one week ago, and since then she keeps sitting next to me in my Computer Science class. Maybe she's doing that because she considers me as a good friend, or I am unable to find her purpose.
Nevertheless, I can not stop thinking of her, I still think of her so badly that I can not even focus on something else.
It is really annoying at some point, because all my thoughts go for someone that might not even be thinking of you, and is probably with her boyfriend having some good time. While me, I'm miserably sitting there thinking of her uselessly.
I would really appreciate some help in this situation, since I'm having huge difficulties to go forward in my life. I could not enjoy my life as I should if I keep it that way.
Thank you for providing me some help.
Hoping that I'll read many inputs from various people.
Most Helpful Girl
Sadly, this happens. I had a crush in high school for two years. I asked him out, either to the dance or to just hang out, but he had a girlfriend already. It's tough, but the best thing to do is to try to occupy your thoughts with something else. Hobbies or hanging out with your friends might help.
Being around her, like when she sits right next to you, is going to make it more difficult to move on for you. I had to change my seat and to have him behind me at first, and that did help. Almost like an "out of sight, out of mind" type of thing. Gradually, I moved on.0
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