For me personally, red pill has been one of the main influences for self-development over the past two years, though not only. People think it is all about misogyny and woman hating but there is more to it than that. Red pill emphasises that you need to escape the feminist stereotypes about what women supposedly like in men to truly understand (and therefore attract) women. It is about emphasising that typical dating advice, e. g.
'“Just be yourself”
“The right girl will come along some day”'
doesn't always work and that it should be substituted for something more pragmatic, e. g.
'Approach and Stay
Don't leave until they tell you to leave or they themselves walk away
Hit the gym
Old fashioned lifts are best
Minimize fast food
Dress your best
Get into a habit of talking to everyone!'
Most Helpful Girl
Lol I am trying to understand from the links posted. It is about male female interactions geared towards helping out men? or like helping men understand women more?
To be honest it seems like a lot of over thinking to be honest. Life just is not that hard :/
Maybe those things are too foreign for me to understand :D0
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Most Helpful Guy
I like red pill advice because it works, but a lot of the members are too bitter and a lot of the other ideologies often fall into misogynistic territory, sometimes that's just the members but it can be seen in the sidebar material as well.
Overall though, if you can look past some of the bitter men there you can find some very sound advice, I particularly like the reading material they suggest.