So I just saw a question where I saw l read that a virgin guy is a turn off to a women and they think that it is disgusting and that something is wrong with him? They wrong date him or be very reluctant to date him?
I am doomed being a 23 old virgin? Should I lie about having no girlfriend and just tell the girl that I had 2 girlfriends they asked me... Or lie about being a virgin?
- Yes lie.. It's OK10% (20)32% (62)20% (82)Vote
- Not dont lie (explain why)90% (190)68% (130)80% (320)Vote
Most Helpful Girl
I'm gonna give you MY (EMPHASIS ON "MY" BECAUSE I DON'T SPEAK FOR ALL WOMEN) honest opinion. If I had some sort of magical powers where I could pick from any man, I probably wouldn't want a virgin. BUT WAIT, I don't want a "player" either. I prefer a guy to have similar amount of partners as me. Give or take a few, so ideally from 1-5 partners.
Does this mean I wouldn't give virgins a shot? No. Don't be melodramatic. I definitely would not turn down an awesome guy just because he's a virgin.
Would I turn down a guy with over 5 partners? No. But I do have a limit and anything over 15 is intimidating and too much.
Why don't I want a virgin? Simple. I'm lazy and I want good sex. I'll do my part, but I'm too lazy to teach someone. So I prefer at, least some experience, but not too much lol
Remember that people tend to go for their equals. And I find that virgin girls are eager to pair with virgin men.
But I don't think that they're losers. I don't think virgin men are weird. And I don't think there's anything wrong with them. I'm willing to date one, though it's not my preference.1
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Most Helpful Guy
I find it somewhat amusing how most girls here write the sensitive "no don't lie, that's bad m'kay" answer but then will go to OP's mentioned poll and vote on virgin guys being unattractive.
Look ladies. You have this mentality where whenever a friend or whomever asks for advice, you say not what they NEED to hear. But what they WANT to hear. You'll say anything just to be sensitive to their feelings. Although that quality is admirable, your unwillingness to hurt his feelings, it works against him. I mean... why do you vote in that poll about a virgin guys being a turnoff but then start singing a different tune as soon as you're asked directly whether a guy should be honest about being virgin or not?
You yourselves proved that virginity in a man is unattractive. It's only logical to assume that the best way for an virgin guy to get laid is to either not reveal it or lie about it because, again, you yourselves proved virginity is unattractive.
Please answer, which of your advice should men take into consideration - that virginity is unattractive as proven in the polls, or that a guy should risk revealing it?0