Female. 21. Tall. Average/hourglass build. Considerately attractive. Yeah I have Generalized Anxiety and am moody, there are those who are fucking psychos and are married. I am so unlucky this concept of feeling incompetent without a partner and being alone makes me wish I was dead. It is an obsessive, impulsive thought. Why the fuck was I cursed with this? Anyone else in the same predicament?
The girl I love is gone. I was about to enter a relationship with her but now she's disappeared. There are complete psychos in this planet that are married and having amazing sex lives. You and I, we're normal compared to these married psychos, yet we can't even find someone that loves us back. I guess this is a challenge that we both have to accept in our current lifetime.
I been alone for 22 years, after 6 months of dating I'm back to being lone-wolf and to be honest I'm 120% happy with it. It all takes time to find someone worth spending your time with. Anxiety is a pain in the ass, but I think Clinical Depression + AvPD (I got this) is worse of a combo when coming to something like dating/relationship.
You sound like a nice woman. I am sorry you feel bad. If you want you can pm me and I can try to help you. I went awhile thinking like that too but trust me it's not you. I'd like to help you but I'd need to know more.
I am 26 and in the same position as you :( I really don't want to rely on an escort but... I should have had a relationship by now. If you are attractive, you will find someone to love you', don't worry, guys do the approaching!
I'm turning 21 next month and haven't been in a relationship either. Relax. Your entire existence shouldn't be defined by your relationship status. I understand the frustration but taking it so personally is not healthy. Your time for a relationship will come, just like my time will lol.
I live in a small town with women being under 5 foot 3. I'm 5 foot 6 and tower over the other women. I still feel awkward but I found a guy who's 6 foot 2 so it's great. My sis in laws I tower over by more than a foot I swear but hey I can reach the middle shelf at the store and they can't! Lol you'll find someone keep your head up girl! Best wishes to ya!
Very similar situation! I likely have GAD, Depression, and Social Anxiety although all are getting better or have never been super severe. I've never been in a relationship, am average/cute, short, and have an hourglass build. I think my problems are I don't put myself out there and I have a hard time recognizing when guys are flirting / interested and I'm slow to develop feelings and / or interest. I'm also very shy and just inexperienced about how to even show interest back. The timing's been off for me and the last two guys I've had an interest in as well. I don't know if any of these have been your issues as well but I don't think we're cursed, just slow to learn this stuff maybe?
Yes. But lately I've grown to appreciate my solitude. I don't want a partner right now, I mean I don't want to date. After the last few guys I briefly dated, I'm good taking my own time now.
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