Is it really wrong for me to be attracted to younger guys who are at least 16-17? Even date them too? (the age of consent is 16 in my state, so it's legal!!)
It's not pedophilia. People misunderstand the definition of that word so much. I've just always been sexually attracted to younger men. If I wanted to date a young 16 year old man, it should be no one else's business because it's legal.
yes its wrong. think about it. he has a lot to learn about life and he still needs to figure out what he wants out of life and who he is. if you date or have sex with them, you're robbing them of that. you'll fuck up his mind. just don't do it. let him grow up and have a normal life with women his own age. and no. its not okay for guys in their 30's going after young women either.
Yes it is wrong. let me explain why. One stop calling a 16 year old boy, a man. Two, at 16 hormones are out of control, you are in the heat of puberty. You are not the person you will be only 3 years later. you are a child mentally at 16, your brain hasn't matured.
Your more than double his age though. You could be his mother. People date younger than themselves when they haven't lived enough and don't grow up in the head. I'm guessing you were in a long term relationship and spent too much time in the house waiting on him and feel you've missed out
What about a 23 year old who looks 17-19 😉 lol. But in all seriousness how can you be emotionally involved with someone sso young. The thought process in life is so different and priorities not alligned. Or is it just physical?
It may be legal but it's morally wrong I think. The brain of a teen boy (or girl) is different than that of a a true adult male. I think it's ok to date younger MEN. I'm not going to tell you that's wrong. In fact, good for you!
I have a 16 year old brother (I'm 30, age here is wrong) and if my brother bought home a 33 year old or even someone in her early 20s, I would be pissed off. To me that's taking advantage of a BOY who's in puberty and doesn't have the maturity to sustain a relationship.
Best of luck to you... maybe aim for young men just not that young.
People can't help what they're attracted to so I don't think it's wrong or disgusting. Honestly though if I was 33, even if I *wanted* to, I'd not date a 16 year old. Regardless of what everyone else thought it just wouldn't sit right with me... it's too young.
It's not wrong for you to be attracted to them but I believe if you're going to go young it shouldn't be under 18. Are you positive it's legal for you? In my state 16/17 is only legal if you're 5 years older or less. You're an adult and 16/17 year olds are children and you would be doing something inherently wrong by pursuing a relationship with them in my opinion.
well i think 10 years of durance or more is too much.
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