I have a pretty big heart and if my s/o cheated it would crush me (kind off). I love with depression so I may go manically suicidal, holding zero regard for my life. My logic in that moment would be "I want to make sure they remember that they caused this and that they suffered". Lucky thing is that I'm pretty logical and morally correct person so I would not make them suffer.
Instead I would ask them to leave me and forget about me. My mother and stepdad nearly divorced do to fights at home and stuff, and I was aware she had someone on the side. I did not say anything to somehow keep there marriage and it stayed after the fire burned down. However till this day I been eating myself over what happened and the fact she was cheating defeated my mother I my eyes to nothing more then a cheap whore.
So as such I hold a very strict policy on cheating or dating someone who has cheated. I have absolutely zero tolerance for cheaters. I would never cheat and I would rather die then to cheat in order to save my life. I'm not fanatical, I just prefer to dedicate my feelings and love to one person, my genuine feelings not desire for sex.
No I think I would have to leave him, no matter how hard it was. Only because if I stayed, I'd be doing myself a disservice. I'd constantly be wanting to check his phone, asking where he's going, constantly wondering if he's cheating on me again. I wouldn't want to put myself through that. After all, love is as perennial as the grass. I will find someone new.
Depends. If I was being a dick or a loser and was some-what responsible for her being unhappy then I guess it would be partly my fault. So if we worked it out, yes I would stay. If it was more of a total back-stabbing thing, I would not stay.
Think most people would say no but those who stay say it's like a long slow good bye. Akin to the titanic no matter how much crew did to try and save it, it took many hours to sink. Somethings cannot be salvaged