I'm a 15 year old girl and to be honest, I'm shit scared of anything remotely to do with dating, boyfriends or relationships in general. Nothing traumatic has happened to me in my life (thank the heavens), so it's not that. And I am not surrounded by crumbling relationships or broken families, so it's not that either. I have had boyfriends of course but nothing at all serious. I haven't kissed anyone but just thinking about it makes my skin crawl and I get really nervous.
Both of my parents (yes, even my Dad) said they wouldn't mind if I were to have a boyfriend, and that if I wanted to out to the cinema or get lunch with him I would be allowed. But I honestly am so scared of relationships, that I wouldn't dare. I am also friends with a lot of guys, but they are just friends so I know nothing like 'that' will ever happen with them.
But don't get me wrong, I find guys attractive and everything, but I just imagine them asking me out an I can honestly say I would deny every single one of them. At the same time I really want a boyfriend, but I'd be too petrified to even touch him in any way, shape or form, even a hug.
And I'm not an emotional person at all! The last time I ever cried was when I broke my arm at age 10, and I don't think I would even shed a tear of heartbreak if a guy were to break up with me. And I know that I am straight, I can't think of any other reason for these feelings of fear!
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No one says you have to have a boyfriend at 15.
Don't go freaking out about it. Nowhere in society does it say you HAVE to have a boyfriend by a certain age. Nowhere in society does it say you HAVE to have a boyfriend EVER!
So quit stressing about it. It's no big deal.
I know seniors in college who have never had a boyfriend and they're totally fine.
So take a chill pill.0