I'm unattractive in everyway. Both physically and persinality wise. Everything about me repels other people. Is there any point in trying to find happiness? Or should I accept the inevitable?
Most Helpful Girl
There are people who are unattractive and because of their personality made them attractive. There are also really hot people who are more boring than wood and that makes them not attractive. Beauty is truly in thw eye of the beholder. What kind of personality do you have?
There's always a way to change a boring personality. Try going to places you have an interest in, maybe a museum, and talk about a subject you like. When people, no matter who, talk about their genuine interest it makes them seem a lot more attractive because of the added pep in their voice.
As for looks, if they're really that important then try to make some changes that you're comfortable with. Don't change for anyone and feel insecure about it. Maybe you could fix up your hygiene. If you look and smell clean that goes a long way. A person also becomes attracted to someone who smells good too.
There are a lot of things you can do. Don't just give up1
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Most Helpful Guy
I'll put this bluntly. You are under 18 and you have no idea what is going to happen in your future. You are not even close to being old enough to get any idea how your life will go. The vast majority of people go through many changes in their lives. Most likely some of those changes will be pretty major.
A year from now might be completely different. Then five more years it might be different again. Then ten years even more different. Life is about constant change. Some of those changes are under your control, some are not. Most just happen.
Give your life a chance, because you are giving up before you even start. Some things in life suck. Some suck pretty badly. But us humans are strong and resilient. You just gotta lift your head up, take a deep breath and keep going.1
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