So I met this girl about 3 months ago, we met on Tinder (maybe not the best choice but w/e) and hit it off great, better than any girl I have been with in the past. She is exactly what I am looking for in a girl/partner. We talked for about a solid month, maybe a couple weeks longer. One night she invited me over when her parents were away and wanted to have sex but I was too nervous and couldn't satisfy her like she wanted. (This has never happened to me, I usually blow the girls mind the first time). The next day we had plans that night and we had a great time (so i thought). The next weekend rolls around and I work all weekend (im a nurse) and she goes to hang out with her best friend in a college town about 2 hours away from where both of us live. doesn't text me all weekend and then becomes distant the next week, so stupidly I start asking questions and asking her if things are still mutual between us. She then tells me she thought she wanted a relationship with me but realized she just wants to have fun being single. Couple weeks go by we still talk every now and then but no where near like we did before. I keep asking her on dates and she says yes initially but then comes up with some reason not to go. The next week she asks if we are still going to the college football game I got us tickets for shortly after we met. I tell her it depends on if she is 100% going and she says she is 100% going. The next day she asks if I have plans to stay with a friend near where the game is, I tell her I dont and I planned on this being a date that we go on and I was going to drive her there and drive her back to my place. She agrees to it over the phone but hesistantly. I text her the next day asking if she wants to grab dinner, she says she is in the city and just got off of a date and heading to the hotel. I was so frustrated I didn't answer her text, 3 hours later she texts me saying that I am a great guy and all, but that she is not interested in dating anyone curre
... currently and that she has to turn down my tickets for the game. She wished me the best of luck and said we shouldn't talk anymore. I don't know why she would drop all contact after we were so good together. She told me things like she missed me, and she reminded me of her dad which is what she is looking for in a guy, and all these other positive signs.
I know its a stupid question but is there any hope in getting her back? She was special, the one that got away...
Most Helpful Girl
I don't know how much clearer she can make things. She doesn't want to be with you. She doesn't want a relationship (which you clearly do). Waiting around isn't going to make her want to be with you. In all likelihood, she's just going to get annoyed and cut you off entirely.
In my opinion, the best thing for you to do is to block her number and on all forms of social media. You have to forget her. I know that it's hard, but life is not like the movies. She will not wake up one day and fall into your arms and tell you that you were the one thing she was missing in her life. That's a fantasy that won't come true.
You have to keep busy. Pursue a new hobby. Focus on school or work. Don't allow yourself to be alone and ruminate on what could have been. That's not going to help you here.
She doesn't want to be with you; you need to accept that and move on.1
Most Helpful Guy
She wanted a fuck buddy, not a boyfriend. You made it clear you wanted more. So she canned you. Simple.1