hey I'm 20 years old and I've never had a girlfriend before, but I really like this girl. me and her have really been talking lately and she really likes me and I definitely like her. I find that me and her are very compatible and she enjoys my company as I enjoy hers. Thing she's in school upstate but she's gonna be moving to my city after she is done this semester and might have a chance to hook up.
But I wanted to know if its true that, no matter how much we really like each other if the first kiss doesn't feel right our relationship won't work?
help because I've never really made out with anyone before and I don't want my inexperience to mess up my first real chance at love
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Haha don't worry it's not true! My first boyfriend was my first "real" kiss, or first kiss with a boy for that matter, and it was AWFUL. I didn't get what to do so I just PRESSED my lips against his, it was just a smack and pulled away. It was HORRIBLE. I told him I was just kidding because I kept avoiding his kisses and finally "gave in" and in a sense I did do it kind of half heartidly but he did message me later that night going "Worst first kiss eva!" in a joking way. But as we went on our kissing got amazing. I started trying to kiss him for real experimenting with it, ect. The relationship didn't work out the first time, but we did get back together and have been going strong for over a year now, and I think many more to come. Things are amazingggg.
Basically, it's not an indicator of a relationship but it MIGHT be awkward or not as good as you want it to be, just remember to NOT let that get to you, you will get better and eventually she'll be like 'my boyfriend is a good kisser (; ' so g on the othert hand it COULD be perfect too! Go for it and I hope things progress!0