Actually, I wouldn't date/marry/be in a relationship with a non-virgin girl.
I'm not sure what kind of people would prefer a non virgin over a virgin, I mean seriously, would you prefer buying a used smartphone or laptop over a new one? I don't think so, not comparing girls to products here, but I'm talking about the experiment and the time you will spend, and of course being with a girl who is/was an maybe will always be for you and only for you is way more better than being with a girl who had slept with God only knows number of guys.
People might say "they have experience" and "I'm not willing to be a teacher" ... WTF is this bullshit? Where is the love? Have these people actually lost their dignity or something to a point where they prefer a girl who was fucked before? And on the other hand, this is sex, not physics.
My husband dated me and I was a virgin. He didn't mind. He understood my reasoning of why I stayed a virgin. One reason was all the guys I dated before him were jerks. He told me flat out I am ring shopping what's your ring size. Then the year he was going to propose I gave him my virginity and that was 2 years ago. Why give something like that up to jerks who aren't going to listen and make you feel like you aren't worth it? I wouldn't. Give it to someone who truly cares and someone you know will take care of you while you guys are making love for the first time. Girls I am not going to lie. The first time tends to hurt but go slow guys. Make her feel worth it.
It is discriminant. I would probably prefer a virgin if I am one too. I wouldn't mind if she wasn't. If you're only going to judge a girl on the basis of how many sexual partners she had. Its hypocritic. It wouldn't matter, not unless her past caught up with her. Sure, yeah its disappointing to someone whose first experience is with someone who's already been with someone else before. Its also perfectly valid if a virgin wants to be with virgin and in many ways its the ideal scenario. However, why bias someone who isn't a virgin. It might've been entirely possible that they had really loved their partner.
It's basically irrelevant for me. I mean it's good to know if you are really close, but other than that, if she was in her 20s and virgin I'd be curious if she was really religious or not, as that is unusual in the US.
As a gay kid I would say yes to a male. but the reason I would say yes is because I would like to teach them show them how to do stuff. Its more hot. but the bad part is some people would say no because they want some one that knows how to do stuff. As me though I think it is more cute if you are a virgin.
I would date a virgin and that's because I don't see anything wrong with being a virgin. The only women I refuse to date are the one's that have had more than 5-6 sexual partners and if all of those have been FWB's and ONS's then no, just no and women with children. That's it.
Yes, I would date a virgin as I am one myself. I suppose I would prefer it actually as it means that we can learn and have the shared experience if she then wanted to have that experience, and it would be a better experience for it. I feel there would be a deeper connection between us because if it knowing we hadn't been with anyone else in that way. There are really no reasons for me not to date a virgin but at the same time I wouldn't exclusively date virgins. Still it's a bonus.
Of course. Why wouldn't I? It's only dating. Having said that, I do prefer someone who is experience or almost have about the same sexual experience as I do; it makes the sex that much better in my opinion; if it is leading to that.
That wouldn't be an issue at all for me. It's hard to find a virgin girl in my age range these days, so in fact I would admire her for that. If we really got serious and she wanted to me to take her virginity, I'd be flattered to be her first. :P