Been together going on 5 years now and have lives together for 4 years. Its an everyday thing where he will go to bed around 11:30pm-1am every night, wake up around 12:30pm-1:30pm every day. Then take a nap around 3-4pm and sleep until dinner around 6pm. He sleeps legit all the fucking time. We never spend time together anymore because he would rather sleep instead. He rarely ever works anymore either so I am left in charge of all of our finances.
He has been to the doctor (which I forced because I thought something was wrong because of how much he sleeps). The doctor has done over 18 sleep tests so far because I have pushed for them, completely unsatisfied when they say they find no problem at all while he is sleeping and that he overall sleeps deeply. However, our last trip was to a very high up sleep doctor who is number 1 in the US. This doctor pulled me aside and said there is absolutely nothing wrong with him aside from the fact that he is lazy and has no ambition.
Given this fun fact, I decided to try and make him go out and do things that HE enjoys doing. Like go karting, amusement parks, camping, etc. He always turns them down. I told him I was getting fed up with his sleeping patterns because he never gives me the time of day anymore and he brushes it off like I am overexaggerating. I've done everything I could possibly think of on my own. What can I do?
Most Helpful Guy
It sounds like he's seeing the wrong doctors. It also sounds a lot like a major depressive disorder. But then again it could be medically related such as having a bad thyroid. It could be a lot of things medically related or it could also be drugs. But one thing it's not and that's normal.4
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I would have thought there was something medically wrong with him as well. If he has been to tons of doctors and he doesn't seem to have a medical condition, then he might be depressed, for which he would need to see a psychologist.
Your boyfriend is not concerned? Or what does he think about it? And when did all this start?2