Recently, I started seeing a guy I really like. We met online, he's 20, I'm 18. We've met up a few times and we're really comfortable together and have spoken everyday for a month and a half.
Problem is, we live 30 min away from eachother so we've only met up in public half way between our towns. He invited me to go to a park by his house but hasn't asked me over to his house yet.
I was thinking about driving around and showing him my town since he's never been here & then hanging out at my house after (no sex obviously, he's a gentleman). I obviously still live w my mom and so does he. My mom is really easygoing when it comes to having guys over, but I'm just worried about scaring him off.
Anyone who's met my mom thinks she's really nice & whenever I have a guy over she just says hi and leaves us alone.
When is it acceptable to have him come over? I'm not trying to rush things, but I'd like for him to learn more about me.
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Well I don't have much experience with these kinds of things or any experience really for that matter😅 but I think now would be the appropriate time. Especially since you've been seeing him for a little while. Just casually ask him if he'd like to come over and make it a "no big deal" kinda thing. Something so minor shouldn't scare him off. If it does... You should reevaluate your relationship.0