A girl and I wanted something serious. After 2 months, she left me. She wasn't ready to make a commitment with me, I guess. The thing is, I would've waited for her. I don't know why she just left me without saying anything. That hurt me so much. I just wish she would've just told me what she really wanted instead of remaining silent.
It's an important question. Time is fleeting. You needn't wait nine months to ask a guy what he wants from life. It's fine after a few dates The guy who doesn't want to answer is a guy with no direction in his life. Better to find out sooner rather than later.
Nope, it just depends on a lot of things like how long we've known each other and level of attraction. But if a girl just casually says I'm looking for a relationship eventually then I see nothing wrong with that. Again, it's how they act about it.
It is a turn off when a girl wants something other than what the guy wants. It don't necessarily have to be commitment, but any time you have two people who want different things out of a relationship they are not going to last real long together.