My only two girlfriends cheated on me. I still miss them both, but they now both have new boyfriends that are way more attractive than me. I seriously have hit an all time low and i dont know what to do with myself. I have a good amount of friends and go out a lot, but it still doesn't help. I keep saying that im ugly, stupid, too nice, and all this negative shit. I never think like that. How can i overcome this? I literally haven't felt so terrible in my life, and i dont even want to consider dating again. Falling in love is like killing yourself nowadays..
Most Helpful Girl
i been used 7 times and I am not ugly , being cheated on has nothing to do with looks
having self pity isnot going to make a girl stay or get you laid all you can do is accept and move on to the next0
Most Helpful Guy
Falling in love is not like killing yourself, but allowing yourself to fall in love with the wrong person is like committing suicide.
Attractiveness is only one factor in a relationship and any perceived deficit there can be at least partially offset by excelling in other areas. Some young people think this is stupid, but many girls really value a guy who displays chivalrous behavior (all that stuff your grandparents tried to teach you.)
Print a label that says "#1" and place it on the inside of your wallet so that you see it every time you open your wallet. It is a constant reminder that you must make yourself #1, As Rabbi Hillel said, "If I am not for myself, who else should be?"
Your biggest problem with women is probably your attitude because I am guessing that it is perceived as a lack of self-confidence. No guy wants to date Debby Downer and no girl wants to hang out with Ima Idiot.
If you don't start dating again, I'm going to come kick your ass. Please message me to provide your home address and the best days/times to find you at home for the aforesaid ass kicking.0