My boyfriend thinks im overreacting and being stupid for feeling like this but i dont care if he messages his female friends calls them or whatever i do the same with my male friend however i do not hangout with my male friend alone out of respect for my boyfriend and i dont want him hanging out with
females alone without me out of respect for me especailly because they are single and attractive. I do trust him i dont trust other females nor like other females in general i only have one close female best friend am i really being stupid and overreacting or should my boyfriend be more understanding about it
Most Helpful Guy
Yes. You are being stupid and over reacting.
Go see a shrink about your insecurities.0
Most Helpful Girl
Isn't it more weird if you're able to text and contact them, but actually cannot hangout by yourself? They're his friends, not yours.
If you don't feel comfortable hanging out with your friend alone, that's one thing, but your boyfriend is also entitled to his choices. Are you actually telling him he can only go if you can join them?
Honestly I have no idea what kind of hangout will the three of them have, but maybe in this kind of situation you can only voice your feelings to him, say you don't think it's right for a commited person to hang out by themselves, and let him make his own choice without acting parent-like?
As a responsible adult, if someone told me "I trust you, just not your friends", I would be cringing, because I'm old enough to know how to pick my friends and not do anything I don't want to.
Fortunately, my boyfriend isn't one to hangout with female friends or even have female friends.
My married male friends don't seem to mind going out with me by themselves, but now that I have a boyfriend, we mostly only do lunchs. It's not easy.0