How much of a plus is it to you that someone of the opposite sex who you are attracted to has nice personality and is kindhearted?
Updates: Most Helpful Girl
Not a plus, it's a requirement for me. But that's not enough.
Most Helpful Guy
Given how rare it is, it's a big plus. Absolutely *essential* for a relationship...
... Which is why I have never been in an "official" relationship. Plenty of dates, plenty of "what are we" conversations... but never a woman who I would have considered seriously.
What Girls Said 1
Its a normal its not a plus!
What Guys Said 3
The young woman who responded to this question has said what I think and that these personality-traits are a basic requirement. I would not want to be with a woman that had a dry personality and was mean spirited.
It's a must have for me, but if I was physically attracted to her, and decided to talk to her, and she was kind and a nice personality, I would be thrilled.
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