If you met a person that smoked a pack every 2 days about, I know that it would be a turn off but enough to be a deal breaker, even if they were willing to quit for the right person? If you could explain your reasoning as well that would be cool.
No hate please, you have your vices and I have mine!
- Doesn't bother me.17% (9)12% (8)14% (17)Vote
- Bothers me, but not a deal breaker.20% (11)18% (12)19% (23)Vote
- Bothers me, not a deal breaker if they're willing to quit.19% (10)17% (11)18% (21)Vote
- Absolute deal breaker.44% (24)53% (35)49% (59)Vote
Most Helpful Guy
Since I smoke, in the process of quitting, it wouldn't be a deal breaker but the issue is that if I were to completely quit and my girlfriend was a smoker then it'd make it much harder to quit. It's the same with being around friends who smoke when you're trying to quit.
That being said, I think smoking is more of a mental addiction than a physical one.1
Most Helpful Girl
I dated a smoker before. He was actively trying to quit, so I had no problem with it. He did not accomplish that while we were together and as far as I know still has not. I am not sure if I would want to go down that road now. I do not want to have to deal with the health effects of second hand smoke.1