I'm 21 and do think I want a long term relationship, but everytime I get the chance the same thing happens. We go out together, every thing is great, we get to know each other and all that corny stuff, and then as soon as we have sex I completely lose interest in the guy. And it's not like the sex is horrible.. in fact, the better the sex, the more eager I become to move on to the next guy. Even if the guy is really great and me "ideal type"... what's wrong with me? I try to have feelings but they are non existent... I don't think I'm a promiscuous at all, I mean I have only slept with around 15 guys - 4 of which I was in a more or less serious relationship with. My last ex told me I was a cold hearted bitch. Do you think there is something wrong with me?
Most Helpful Guy
You just haven't found the one1
Most Helpful Girl
It may just be that they are lacking in some specific department and maybe you are unaware of it at the time; but then when sex comes into play it hits you all at once. We often confuse lust for actual feelings toward the individual. I have many friends who are the exact same way. However, I believe that the main reason my friends are like this is because they all suffered from a severe heartbreak and are looking for someone else to match the same qualities as the guy who broke their heart.1