5' 9 is not bad at all... especially for most girls, because I'd say there's a lot of girls out there who are 5'4-5'8, and you're taller than that. Most girls just want a guy that's taller than them. Me, I"m 5'4, so 5'9 seems tall to me. For my friends who are 5'10, it may be harder to get them.. they like really tall guys, like 6'4... in that instance, I think on first judgement they'd be seeing your height as a deal breaker, but if they got to know you more then yes all of those qualities would make up for your lack of height. Especially if you have ALL of those qualities, because then you'd be very hard to pass up. Please, don't spend too much time worrying about how to get girls to like you. It's all about being who you are and being comfortable in your own skin, then the rest will come. Plus, you technically only need one girl out of four billion to like you (if you're looking to marry one) so that shouldn't be too hard... but again, don't spend too much time fretting over her, just be you and be the person you want to be. Treat her right, and if it's meant to be it'll work out.
I'm shorter than most girls I like, as I'm only 5'6, and there's nothing bad about it. Sure, I might gotta jump up higher or go on my tip toes to not have my head smushed in her boobs, but it's not a death sentence like society treats it to be. A lot of qualities can make up for the lack of height, and for some guys muscle, so nothing to worry about. As long as you're a good guy, you're fine. Like I said, I'm shorter than most girls I like, and most in general, but I make up for it by being a gentleman and being myself.
And if any dumbass tries to say "you're fucked", ignore them. Just someone with their own insecurities.
I am short and there's a guy in my life who is the same height as me. I like him. His height used to bother me but he is 1. handsome 2. friendly 3. confident 4. not clingy not aloof 5. he actually smiles and says hi when he sees me 6. he talks to me and approaches me 7. he seems ripped tbh
It's a combination of things, but I think if a guy is kind and confident then it doesn't matter.
Height is a big deal for me. But it really depends on the woman, sometimes if you're shorter it will be the end all, as ridiculous as that seems. But you would never want to be with someone that wasn't ecstatic to be with you.
In my mind being short isn't something that needs to be made up for unless he's under 5 feet. I've liked guys my height and i'm 5'2. If he was that incredibly short I'd maybe consider him if he had a ton of integrity, depth and generally good looks/fashion sense.
Of course he is. It's about charm or a sense of humor to me. I'm short so I don't have a problem with a guy my height or even one who was shorter or taller. A height doesn't make you who you are. It's sad that society can enforce that the tall guy gets the girl or the tall guy is sexy and attractive. In reality, it's a personality that people need to examine.
Confidence. That cancels out literally everything. Has to be genuine though...
you sound good to me.
as long as the guys SUPER nice and is loving and never causes arguments and stuff
My boyfriend is really short. However it's incredible how girls are after him. I want to kill those bitches grrr and I'm thankful that he isn't taller otherwise it would be even worse lol He's hot, confident, sexy, nice body, nice face, intelligent, smart, interesting... that explains his success rates...
by the way he's short but I'm way shorter than him (about 12 centimetres), still he's the shortest guy I've ever been with and I'm as tall as him when wearing high heels and this had never happened before.
Short guys may be better in bed and as short as I am, it's also the first guy with whom it's comfortable to have sex while standing.
avoid making it an issue. if you embrace it, it will be less of a problem than u think!
The last guy I really liked was my height (I'm 5'7). We just got along really well, plus I thought he was cute. But he wasn't gorgeous or anything, we just seemed to have so much in common. I even went out and bought a few more pairs of flats for our dates.
I know other short guys who do well with women. I don't think being short is the biggest challenge a guy can have, despite what some guys say on this forum. I think having poor social intelligence/skills is the biggest challenge that a guy has to overcome.
Intelligence and confidence combine with wealth will be a very attractive combo. I call people with those 3 things King-type people.
There is nothing fancy about you. You aren't the smooth and warm type of guy. You are sharp l. You know what the other person thinks and know how to disrupt them. You are direct and blunt. However, you can defeat a whole paragraph of arguments with only one of your own.
The combo creates the feeling of power and power is extremely attractive. You won't be getting those romantic maidens because you aren't a handsome knight. However, you will attract women who are willing to me Queens, Princesses and Mistresses.
You're not even short, you're 6 inches taller than me. I got told I make up for being. short by being muscular. Also it has never bothered me, the thought doesn't even enter my mind when I'm talking to a woman. Almost all of my girlfriends have been taller than me, I don't care.