One day you were bored and desided to pull out good old online dating app. So after bit time and bit swipping you found a nice looking guy, let's say 7.5/10. After reading his profile you went your own marry way, untill few hours later you got a message from this guy.
After some chit-chat you metup and found that you like the person (there interesting, intelligent and are pretty decent human being), one day you went to his house and found a dirty little secret. He is into Anime and has Anime figurines. At this point you are wondering "wtf!".
Given that the guy is decent looking, smart and treats you like a woman (not a sexual object) how would you react to his hobby?
Dump his sorry as on the spot!
Would be bit skeptical, but whatever. I have my own odd hobbies.
Jump in and watch anime with him
I don't know, I would be confused as fk!
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Personality is what matters! Hobbies and interests come second.
I would not be able to date someone that is obsessed with anime because I find it creepy and weird (I've tried watching them but I just find them silly, no offense meant, it's just not for me). But if it's someone's side thing and he didn't expect me to watch it, I'd be okay with it. It's just not something I have any interest in whatsoever.
I always find it's best to be with someone that has compatible interests, so I can understand if a person doesn't want to be with someone who has a main interest of anime if they aren't into it, too. But it's not like I would think you are any less of a person or look down on you, because I wouldn't think that. I'd just think we'd be better off with someone who has similar interests!
Really, your best bet would be to find someone that loves anime, too! There are soooo many girls that fangirl over anime. Honestly, I feel like its more common than not that a girl likes it. Then you can watch it together and make it into a combined hobby/interest :)
As long as that hobby didn't take over your life and it is a very small part of your overall interests. I don't mind if a guy games or likes that kind of stuff. At 1st I didn't mind that my ex was into game cards (similar to pokemon), then I discovered that he would always tell me he wanted to be w/me, but couldn't afford to marry me. This guy who was supposedly broke spent almost a hundred bucks on game cards. I found that to be absolutely ridiculous and that I was less of a priority then cardboard game cards.