Do you mainly date for sex?
What Guys Said 11
Sex is great, but a relationship is important. casual sex? make hookups for that. you don't "date" your booty call. you date someone (or, in my opinion, you SHOULD date someone) because they are important to you and you think there is a possibility for a real relationship there.0
It's like 50/50 for me2
I am always honest with women who show interest in I, saying I only want friendship or sex1
Naaah... but mostly so I won't have to watch a scary move alone -_-0
I'm a virgin, and so is my fiancée. We both had marriage in mind when we met.1
The sex is fun of course but I date cause I like dating in general1
7 out of 10 times, Yea. I don't even date much ha0
I'd say no0
yes, i do.1
Of course, I mean why else do I need a woman?1
What Girls Said 5
That question has definitely crossed my mind several times. Wondering how often sex is the fueling force behind my boyfriend and I choose to stay together, and how we would fare without it, or with less of it.
Though neither of us got together primarily to have sex (or at all, as neither of us were sexually active so it never even came up in conversation), I think it was definitely a much bigger factor in us as a couple in our first few months together. When we'd fight over the most ridiculous, petty issues, only to resolve things with make-up sex. When we'd hang out several times a week to basically just have sex.
Now, it's very different. Sex is still a big part of our relationship, but I think we're both in it for more than just that. Sex definitely has it's fair share of appeal, but I'm with my boyfriend because I love him for who he is as a person, and how he makes me feel. Not for his dick powers. :P0
no way. sex is easy enough to come by without dating,. so i dont see why anyone would do that, unless they can't get casual sex. dating for me is about getting to know people i like with the added possibility of things becoming intimate bc of attraction. its more like there's a safety net of things we can sod that i dont do with friends. as apposed to the aim.2
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I'm dating for a bond, and though sex can help strengthen the bond, it's not what I'm looking for.0
That's pretty lameeee1