I have a boyfriend who is very kind hearted and sweet but he has a flirty personality an at times takes it way to far , He let's girls know he has a girlfriend but they don't seem to care ! The problem is how can I get him to stop being so flirty to the point where its damn near cheating ? Should I fight fire with fire or what we have also only been dating for about 8 months
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Never fight fire with fire in a relationship, it only makes things worse.
Did you tell him it bothers you? First step to anything is open communication.
Just because he is flirty doesn't mean he will cheat. I'm flirty, my girlfriend is flirty, and we both trust each other 100%. We've been together 18 months now, no problems with trust.
This is not cause for break up. First talk to him. Tell him you trust him (this is super important), but tell him you are uncomfortable with the way he flirts with girls. Tell him it just makes you feel bad. If he understands and makes an effort, then that is a good sign. If he dismisses your feelings and thinks you are overreacting, that is not a good sign - but doesn't mean it's over.
If he actually cheats, it's totally over, no going back.0