This was a while ago but I was leading on this guy, well, I was kind of using him as rebound as well.
I felt so bad that I tried to break it off as nicely as I could. He was my friend for 2 years prior to us "dating" so I still cared about him. I told him we should be friends and he lost it and said he didn't wanna be just friends.
So I ended up staying with him. Even though I never really fell deeply in love with him, I did love him, and cared about him so much. :( I always felt like I did the wrong thing.
We are no longer together but I still felt like I used him.
Most Helpful Guy
We all have our flaws, some have trouble expressing their feelings and what not. One action doesn't define a person but it certainly gives us a clue to who that person might be.
Think of it this way: Now that you know how you'll feel afterwards, would you do it again? If not then you've probably learnt a lesson and thus you're not a bad person, at least not in my book. We all have the right to make mistakes, it's how you deal with the aftermath that's important, will you do it again or are you going to change something?
In this case you should probably talk to him about it, I know that if I were him then I'd be very happy for you to come true with me, I'd prefer to be hurt by the truth rather than being seduced by a lie.1
Most Helpful Girl
Sorry to say, but using people is quite a sad thing to do. Its harsh and humiliating.0