simply put, the whole "game" of dating is nonsense that seems to serve no purpose other than potentially generate drama. should i message first or wait? do i call the next day or play it cool and wait a few? she sent me a pic, how should i respond? what nonsense. i want a connection with someone, not some intricate, social/emotional game of chess that might get me sex if i win.
Why can girls never understand this? I get it that people can be shy but still it SUCKS ASS having to have the obligation of making the first move because you're a guy. Guys can be shy too but it is way harder because you get nowhere if you are and you're a guy.
I like to chase a girl who is receptive and it feels awesome to feel wanted. When you're doing all the work sometimes it feels like the girl doesn't really like you much. Even if she does and simply expects the guy to put in all the work.
Well if she calls or text first it is nicer for me... but I can also take the initiative, but the current situation I'm in I would like her to text me first... Do girls like guys to text them first or does it look too needy?