I'm 18 and still a virgin. Every guy I've dated wants to have sex right away and I get a lot of 'offers' for sex but that's not what I want. Obviously I've thought about it but I made the decision to wait not until I'm married but a while into a relationship I'm talking AT LEAST 6 months. To some people that's a really long time but I know if I gave in before I was ready I would lose respect for myself just because I've made a promise to myself. It's so hard to find guys who will wait. Are there still some of those guys out there?
Its also hard to find people around me who understand. I'm not doing it for religious reasons or because I'm scared etc but because I've seen women give it up and regret it afterwards or have the guy totally bail and I'm not into that idea. He doesn't have to be 'the one' but someone I know will respect me and not use me.
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Yes, there are guys like that as well.
The real trick though, if you have had casual sex before then never expect that from a guy. Guys who would wait for girls like this are idiots. But if you're a virgin or at least always wait yourself then I'm very sure you'll find a guy who does. Also, you can wait as long as you can but never say no when it's the perfect time to have sex. There are those times as well, so it's also not waiting just because. Wait as much as possible, but when you do it make it right then.0
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