I'm an attractive girl and I've only had one serious boyfriend ever. I tend to find guys that are only interested in hooking up. I just got out of a "relationship" where the guy refused to make it official for 2 years. The next girl he dated, he became "official" with right away. What am I doing wrong? Why do men not want to be in a relationship with me? Where do I find these "good" guys?
I'm educated, attractive, have a good personality and am not slutty. I try to be a good person and a good friend to everyone I meet. Help please!
Most Helpful Guy
Good guys may be taken because they may have known what they want and got it. However you may be able to find nice guys through online dating, guys who are both reserved but still with a pretty good personality with the right encouragement.
Check out dating sites that allow their users to post profile descriptions, and look out for a description/photo that seems appealing to you, where their profile sounds like an all-round good guy hah. Good luck!0
Most Helpful Girl
I don't know how soon you sleep with guys, but I would utilize the 3 month rule. That way, you weed out guys who are simply interested in sex.
There are plenty of good guys out there, but you never know what a guy truly wants until he spends time with you. I'm sure you're not doing anything wrong--just because they aren't interested doesn't mean that there's something wrong with you.
I would try dating sites and singles parties. To me, you sound like a catch, so it could be that some guys are intimidated. There are men out there who will appreciate you though. :)0