I'm not really sure if it's just like a little crush that's going to go away or what. But literally every time we talk I get butterflies and that just brings me back to middle school years and stuff. He's super sweet and mature and we have a lot in common believe it or not. I know that to a lot of people the age difference is probably really frowned upon and I also have thoughts on how weird it would be if it was someone else in this situation. There's just something about him though. I look forward to talking to him everyday. We have hungout twice and the second time we went a little too far. Now I just feel like I really love him. But I also feel so wrong about it all. So what's your thoughts? It's a mess.
Most Helpful Guy
Absolutely nothing wrong with it at all. Society has its stigmas. racism, religious and at ageist or am society based judgmental dislikes. These boundaries are being pulled down but slower than bomo phobia.
Desire and sex helps break all these ridiculous man made berries down.
I have enjoyed many relationships with a similar age gap as you describe. Some younger women have a greater mental maturity and desire to be with an older guy. They all so give more respect to women and when it comes to sex many of this sort of women find it very loving careing and rewarding in a way not felt with younger men. The ability to be taught and have the knowledge of his experience passed in in a respectful full way and Jon judgmental way.3
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Most Helpful Girl
I doubt it is "love"
You are crushing. The age gap really is very big. He could be your dad and of course this immediately brings up "oh she's got daddy issues"
I don't know if that is the case, but bottom line is, you are 19. Legally an adult and free to do, or not do, whatever the fuck you want.
If you want to hang out with this man, why not. Just don't expect too much out of it. Chances for this to go anywhere are very slim. Maybe it will work out, maybe it won't. In the mean time, have fun and don't give a shit about what other people might think really.5